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January 29, 2020 at 6:29 am

Sometimes , situations arises when we don’t want the things to do with a wrong intention but it depicts in a wrong manner .
And some time , we ourselves make unnecessary illusionary thoughts in our mind and ourself start directing the thing in a different zone .

February 20, 2020 at 5:28 am

If you’re not so concerned and willing to talk to your ex-boyfriend – why break up with him in the first place and marry someone else? And now when you’re facing problems – suddenly you’re reminded of him?

Don’t do this. You promised you won’t disturb his married life – keep that promise and learn to “face” your problems now! I’m sure you must have broken up with him because of some problems only – that you were not ready to face because of which you broke up and ran away. But for how long will you run from your problems? Today you’ll contact him, he might help you out of courtesy, but what after that? Ten years later again you’ll be in some problem – what will you do then? Contact him again?

February 20, 2020 at 9:20 am

Just call him in your free time and ask him that he is happy or not and don’t tell him that u still miss him
If he says he’s happy then u should step back and try to be happy in ur current married life
But if u both want to be together again still there is no chance because it can destroy two lives
So its better u both should forget each other and move on in ur married life
Find the ways that makes you happy and enjoy wid ur life partner . Plan for future

March 27, 2020 at 9:28 am

I think u should keep ur promise then. That’s the best u can do.
Do you think he can set right your married life? He might have already gone ahead in life and going back may ruin his life too. Find your solution at your own.

March 27, 2020 at 10:39 am

What do you really want to achieve by doing this?
To seek sympathy? To use him as an outlet for your depression? To hope that in case if he too finds himself in such a situation in his marriage, you two can probably get together again? What exactly is the need to do this, I fail to understand.
If you understand your own motives better and are clear in your conscience, do what you think is right and stop asking for advice from strangers.
All the best.

March 27, 2020 at 12:06 pm

Though it is not that difficult as you think, since he is your ex boyfriend, he would be knowing you better and must have a soft corner for you, it could also be possible that he might already had some information about it.
But, the question is would you comfortable in complicating this relationship too and specially when he is also married now ?.
Had I been at your place would not have disturbed his life at all because I am suffering and rather looked out for someone else, if I could find any or else faced it at my own only.
Take a judicious decision.