Peter Goodenough replied to the topic What are some ways to relieve mental stress? in the forum How to deal with stress? 5 days, 20 hours ago
Your question itself contains the answer. First, brush your study table clean. Take some time to think, see that as preparation, not a “waste” of time. Then make a list of the reasons you think are causing you those “stresses”. Put that list away for 24 hours and don’t think about it. These 24 hours, forget just everything about your studies a…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic What's the best way to react when someone is shouting at you in anger? in the forum Anger can be controlled 5 days, 20 hours ago
I try to acknowledge the anger understand it as an emotion triggered by my thoughts first up. Just doing that sometimes gets that emotion back into perspective and it quickly settles without doing any damage. Probably because of a simple thought diversion. But more often than not I also ask myself where is that anger coming from. Where did those…[Read more]
Devesh Srivastava replied to the topic Overcome depression in the forum General discussion 5 days, 20 hours ago
Oh “Depression”, one of my ex-girlfriend 😀
I have been through this for a very long time, I understand your problem. As we know there is no lock made without a key, so it is.
You are the Key to this Lock which has made you lock in state of depression. I will just mention some ways, which has helped me and I am sure will help you too, provided…[Read more]
Arnika Tripathi replied to the topic Stop drinking alcohol in the forum General discussion 5 days, 20 hours ago
You’re not dependent, that’s right.
However, physical dependency only rears its ugly head in the final stage of alcoholism.
The previous stages are more subtle, and include tolerance (you need more alcohol to achieve the same high) and loss of control (drinking one is never enough, you keep on drinking).
While you’re not in the final stage…[Read more]
I call it The Third Person Rule-
Well, it’s pretty simple.
The rule states that when ever you are in a situation that is completely invading your mind and restricting you to think wisely, just stop there. Now assume that you are some third person( a bystander) who is watching someone caught in the very same situation. Now is your time to t…[Read more]
Allen Faria replied to the topic Stress management in the forum General discussion 5 days, 20 hours ago
That state of mind when you are not calm makes you slow at work.
Stress management is following steps that can calm you down.
There are several relaxation techniques used to help in case of: headache, anger management, anxiety attacks, high BP, pain management, etc.
Spending time in nature
Getting a…[Read more]
Abhishek Aiyar replied to the topic Positive in the forum Be Happy 5 days, 20 hours ago
Stop watching all other news channels except DD News.
Be selfish. Think about yourself and your loved ones only.
Stop advertising your feelings and moods on social media.
Watch a movie when you are in a bad mood to escape the world.
Don’t overthink about your past and future. Both are uncontrollable and unchangeable.
Stop worrying about…[Read more]
Shabaz Azmi replied to the topic Stress management in the forum General discussion 2 weeks, 6 days ago
Over the years, I’ve read too many books to count about stress, anxiety and depression. Like most people, I’m always looking for tips and clues about how to handle things better.
Some of these books have turned out to be real stinkers. Others, retreads of books and articles that have said the same things over and over again.
I have found som…[Read more]
Arnika Tripathi replied to the topic Overcome depression in the forum General discussion 2 weeks, 6 days ago
I was a blackout drinker, Like you, I had no stopping mechanism I would just keep going until i practically became a different person, a person not many people liked, a person i didn’t much like, although I didn’t care so much because I didn’t remember what had happened, and alot of the times especially in the earlier days I used to think it was…[Read more]
Allen Faria replied to the topic What are some ways to relieve mental stress? in the forum How to deal with stress? 2 weeks, 6 days ago
When I was a young adult, I was taught that TV is the easiest way to eliminate productivity. I avoided TV at all costs and just worked away. There were even times when I would dedicate 105 hours a week strictly to work, and I didn’t play at all.
I was overwhelmed. All my time was dedicated to work. I had come to find, that after a certain amount…[Read more]
Arnika Tripathi replied to the topic What's the best way to react when someone is shouting at you in anger? in the forum Anger can be controlled 2 weeks, 6 days ago
If you are sure you are in no physical danger, don’t do anything.
Don’t break eye contact.
Wait it out.
Sooner or later the shouter will realize that he/she is getting no where and will say something like, ‘Well, aren’t you going to say anything?’
Your response at this point should be, ‘Not until you are calm’.…[Read more]
Abhishek Aiyar replied to the topic Do things differently in the forum General discussion 2 weeks, 6 days ago
Here’s what would happen :
New opportunities open up for you and you see things differently from others.
People – your friend don’t understand you and call you weird just because you are different.
You might feel disconnected from most people as you do not have herd mentality.
Life will become much simpler as you would no longer feel the need to…[Read more]
Suman Poonawala replied to the topic Healthy relationships in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 2 weeks, 6 days ago
Loving relationships take effort. The experts suggested these tips for making love last.
Manage conflict. In her clinical work and research on happy couples, Dubinsky has found that all couples have conflict. But it’s how they deal with conflict that counts. When a compromise doesn’t seem possible, the key is to manage conflict and fight fai…[Read more]
Shabaz Azmi replied to the topic Positive in the forum Be Happy 2 weeks, 6 days ago
I’m sitting in the train and I hear someone crying, screaming, and howling in the next compartment.
There was a crowd that’d gathered around whoever was crying.
Intrigued, I rushed there.
I see a girl, about my age, on the phone, crying her lungs out.
On asking around I found out that she’d just lost her father thirty minutes ago, and she’d…[Read more]
Seema Malhotra replied to the topic Be Happy in the forum Be Happy 2 weeks, 6 days ago
Besides the basics like my health and the health of my loved ones, I need two things to be happy.
I need people around me to be happy. Not in a fake way, and of course not all the time. I have to surround myself with people who view life as I do, with humor and optimism and a down-to-earth personality. I would rather be by myself than be…[Read more]
Devesh Srivastava replied to the topic Motivate in the forum General discussion 2 weeks, 6 days ago
Inspiration is something that comes from within. None of the external factors can inspire or motivate you.
You need to have full faith in yourself. Nothing should be left to chance or destiny. If your life is not perfect, only YOU are to be blamed and no one else. Take responsibilities for your actions and thoughts.
The next best way is to be…[Read more]
Seetha Lakhmani replied to the topic anger can be controlled in the forum Anger can be controlled 2 weeks, 6 days ago
acknowledgment of why you are angry is more important than using anger. Being aware of the reasoning for the anger is in a way using that anger. Going through the emotional breakdown internally through quiet meditation or alone time away from everyone that you can potentially harm by saying or expressing yourself.
It is perfectly normal for us to…[Read more]
Samual Dean replied to the topic Be calm and do not react in the forum How to deal with stress? 3 weeks, 2 days ago
Learn, know and respect your own emotional style. Introverts and especially introverts who are heavy feelers may need extra time to process their emotions. Don’t be shy about saying you need extra time to work through your feelings.
I found it helpful to get some counseling on how to express my feelings using ‘I’ statements to share in a nonth…[Read more]
Samual Dean replied to the topic anger can be controlled in the forum Anger can be controlled 3 weeks, 2 days ago
Hold no resentment:
Holding on to the negative emotions can just negatively affect your own wellbeing. Figure out how to excuse others. Excusing keeps the relationship sound, yet additionally fends off you from stress and negative feelings.
Samual Dean replied to the topic Healthy relationships in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 3 weeks, 2 days ago
If you’re an empath and with a narcissist, and the narcissist isn’t able to see themself for what they really are and treat their disorder like alcoholism, then I just don’t see any way to have a healthy relationship. You’ll continue to give all, and the narcissist will continue to take more than you are able to give. Unless the narcissist is acti…[Read more]