Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Be Happy in the forum Be Happy 2 months, 1 week ago
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Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Anger in the forum Anger can be controlled 3 months ago
Create multiple questions before acting. And wait patiently for the questions to work wonders.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Emotions in the forum General discussion 3 months, 2 weeks ago
A little dopamine here, a little norepinephrine there… no matter how strong your ego might be, these little chemicals are undeniable when it comes down to it. Intense fear or total elation can be elicited with drugs and brain stimulation. Influence the balance of these neurotransmitters in your brain and prepare to take a ride. Our ego might be…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Problems in Married Life in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 4 months, 1 week ago
Though it is not that difficult as you think, since he is your ex boyfriend, he would be knowing you better and must have a soft corner for you, it could also be possible that he might already had some information about it.
But, the question is would you comfortable in complicating this relationship too and specially when he is also married now…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Relationship advice in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 4 months, 1 week ago
a guy who truly loves his girl does not need to unbutton her shirt to get a better view of her heart.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Overcome depression in the forum General discussion 4 months, 1 week ago
Don’t isolate yourself: The most common behavior of people suffering from depression is that they tend to isolate themselves. They create a protective shell around them and live in it. DON’T do that. If you isolate yourself, you would end up feeling lonely after a while and you’ll have nothing but haunting thoughts in your head. You don’t want th…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic students in medical colleges so over-stressed over academics? in the forum How to deal with stress? 4 months, 1 week ago
Medical Colleges have a lot many girls, you might just find your ‘Lady Charming’ : The person who stated this is on #02 on my Search List, just after Point 1. I haven’t even memorized the names of all of my 250 batchmates and people talk of finding true love 🙄.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic How to use logical thinking to overcome emotions? in the forum Anything is easy if you get used to it 4 months, 1 week ago
1. Any description, even that of emotion above, is logical. We are able to make sense, and sense is made logically.
2. And this logic exists before and after any emotion. Why did you feel a certain way? If you investigate you will find answers, and much more will make sense. What happened after you felt this way? More truth, more sense.
3. So as…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Be Happy in the forum Be Happy 5 months, 2 weeks ago
I was preoccupied with so many thoughts. But one thing that kept me slightly excited was, I really wanted to explore this and the freedom I get along with it.
Not the freedom that I can go out whenever I want or call my friends home kind. That was not new to me. But the freedom of, “My home, my rules”.
When I moved in, all I had was my clo…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Healthy relationships in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 5 months, 2 weeks ago
Every time you make a decision, include your partner. Discuss your decisions with your partner ahead of time – ALWAYS! As a man, I sleep well at night knowing that I ALWAYS considered my wife. However, I did not always defer to her desires. That was because there were many times when I could clearly see that what she wanted was not going to work.…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic anger can be controlled in the forum Anger can be controlled 5 months, 2 weeks ago
Hmmm…. I guess it depends on your definition of anger. If you are talking about the smouldering type, you could put a cover on it.
But if we are talking about the explosive type, no you can not control that. If you get to that stage, the only thing that can happen is for it to run its natural course and burn through. Of course, the trick then, i…[Read more]
lace the needs of your partner ahead of your own. If he/she does the same for you, you both are golden.
Establish a strong trust and NEVER BETRAY IT! This includes cheating.
Never bring pornography into your relationship unless your partner is in to the same stuff. Pornography, IMHO, has ruined far more relationships that people realize.…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Positive in the forum Be Happy 6 months, 1 week ago
Stop judging: A person has full freedom to spend his life the way he wants, no one else can decide for him/her. People have different behaviors, principles, beliefs, faiths, lifestyles, mindset, cultures and judging them based on your parameters is completely incorrect. Judging others inculcates pessimism, bitterness which is a total give away for…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Stop drinking alcohol in the forum General discussion 6 months, 1 week ago
Anyone who drinks to blackout stage more than once or twice should evaluate why they do this to themselves and what they are doing to their body.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Emotions in the forum General discussion 6 months, 1 week ago
You really don’t want this. If others can’t convince you maybe I can. Growing up I was a very sensitive kid and cried at the smallest thing, maybe just someone looking at me funny, this went on for a and only one girl ever talked to me or was nice to me. Long story short, I moved away, got my heart broken and felt like shit. I didn’t have any…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Be calm and do not react in the forum How to deal with stress? 6 months, 1 week ago
Laugh at yourself
Never take yourself too seriously, and become aware of your own silliness. Make fun of it in front of your close friends.
Take yourself seriously
Your highest priority is yourself; no one will take care of you if you don’t take care of yourself. Know what you need to achieve in the short-, medium- and long-term.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic What is basic duty of wife in a happy marriage life? in the forum Marriage Life & Relationships 6 months, 1 week ago
Here are few –
Cooking food for her husband
Washing his clothes
Doing other household chores
And after all this…
serving him in the bed at night.
Seriously Isn’t this something every one expects from a woman when she becomes a wife?? As if you’ve hired an all time maid, who’s in your service 24*7!
You’ve asked *Duty* I just can’t b…[Read more]
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Be Happy in the forum Be Happy 6 months, 1 week ago
You can be happy by letting go of what you don’t like. Drop it like a brick. I can share examples of my personal life.
As a kid, I never understood happiness. Coming out of a single parent family, I just “did” as I was told. Happiness, wtf is that? Can you eat that? I was a very emotionally numb kid.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Do things differently in the forum General discussion 7 months, 3 weeks ago
I would probably not join the same school, if I would have known how it would turn out.
Megha Bajpai replied to the topic Motivate in the forum General discussion 7 months, 3 weeks ago
You got to understand few things about me first.
Food was not just food to me. It was my reason to live.
I used to work 14 hours a day and food was my only comfort so deciding to go on a diet was as difficult as uninstalling whats-app, Facebook and Instagram in one go.
Food was not in my life, my life was in the food that I ate.